From the series Perfecting Your Craft.
So, here’s Part 2 of the Perfecting Your Craft series. Today we will discus Keeping Your Focus.
Have you ever been distracted? I don’t mean a slight diversion and slip of the eye for a quick second. This kind of distraction consumes you until you forget about what you set out to do!
Think about it. Something as minuscule in comparison to the human body such as a gnat or fly can control your attention into swatting it away and possibly causing a dangerous situation if driving. But how often do we give attention to things that are irrelevant to our future and success, especially when their life span is 7 days for a gnat and 28 days for a fly.
1. You Can’t Win If You’re Always Watching Others.
I remember watching the 2016 Summer Olympics 200m Butterfly. The image that remained in my mind was Chad Le Clos steadily watching Michael Phelps.
I was watching this race with my father. Almost immediately after the race began my dad called out, “He’s gonna watch Phelps win this!” After Phelps’ win, I asked how he knew. My dad then dropped this principle. You see, he was a mile runner who held the record in the state of Louisiana in high school, so he knew something about winning tactics.
He recalled a race he ran. It was his record breaking race up against the runner who held the record. His competitor used his time with intimidating looks. My dad used his time to focus on the goal: the finish line. My dad won the race. After the race the former record breaker congratulated my dad by saying, “Man, I watched you three times. The first time, you were behind me. The second time, you were beside me. And the last time, you were ahead of me crossing the finish line. Did you even see me??” My dad told me the only thing he saw was the finish line.
2. Focus on the lesson of the bigger picture.
Many of you have earned degrees and/or certifications from higher education or institutions. I speak with scores of current students who complain about taking a course in which they feel is totally irrelevant to work in the field in which they desire to work. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard, “Why do I even have to take this course? When am I ever going to need to know if z + y= x?”
My reply is always the same as I retell my days of college. In comparison to other students who were my classmates, there were many nights of what seemed like endless reading assignments, research papers and meeting deadlines. In contrast to them, I was 10 years their senior. You see, my outlook was slightly different because I was older. Illness had precluded an earlier enrollment for me.
My reply is also simple. Although I cannot recall every chapter and lesson learned in the many classes taken, I did receive a good education in my field. However the biggest thing I learned in college was discipline. The amount of freedom was immense. It was totally up to me to hunker down, learn the lesson and earn the grade.
3. You are NOT Oprah.
Now of course, no one is except Ms. Oprah herself. But have you ever aspired to be great and someone comes along and tells you how easy being great is? They come up with, “You have the same hours in a day as Oprah. And if she can do it, what’s your excuse?”
My business mentor kindly put this theory to rest. She simply said to my cohort, “You are not Oprah. Oprah has a chauffeur. Oprah has an executive chef. Oprah has an assistant. Oprah has a personal hair stylist. Oprah has a clothing stylist. Oprah has a private jet. And many other things including the wealth to afford them all. You are NOT Oprah.”
It placed everything in perspective. Those luxuries including the extra time are afforded to the few who truly make it. Until then you cannot afford to abuse time as if someone else can fill in the work of the middle man of leg work. If you have time to daydream, you’re wasting it. Begin placing your actual dreams into an action plan. Then use the rest of that time to put that plan into action.
©2017 Photo credit to respective owner. Written expression to Sheilah Vickers